Okay, most of you people who hang out in the chat know about my recent adventures and tangles with the strange creature called love. Well, my friends, I've got some words for you.
To me, love isn't some complicating thing like how most people make it out to be. Love is just this thing that takes over you; those of you who have been in love know what I mean. I honestly can't describe through words how happy I feel whenever I'm around my love, or when I even so much as think about her. Any problem I may have had, no matter how big or small will just vanish with the mere thought of her. Sure, I've had my fair share of crushes and girlfriends, but none of them ever made me feel the way this girl does. It's a feeling I don't want to ever end. But enough about me and my happiness, onto the main point.
I just want you all to know that if you ever find yourself in my shoes, I implore, don't ever let that love go. Keep it, cherish it, hold it, for as long as you possibly can, until your f**kin fingers fall off. If you ever find a love like I've found, I don't want you to ever take it for granted, I don't want you to ever squander it. Make it special, make it last, because love is one thing you do not want to lose. I know I sure as hell don't. I wish that everyone could feel the way I do now, hell, some of you actually do. So please, whenever you find your love... grip it tight... don't ever leave it...
Hear hear.
Like with Saff, chatters will know of my own experience with love, namely with forummer Trudi. 😯 Having nearly been going out for a year, I can say from my experience it's one of the best things that's ever happened to me, and I hope it is for her too. Although we don't see each other as often as some - although more often than most in distanced relationships - I cherish all the time we're together, and wouldn't want anyone else.
I love you Susan, and I'm gonna miss you next week. =(
Im happy you guys have found someone that's made you happy =)
Aww, how nice to have a topic like this. n.n
I've had my boyfriend Tiago for almost 2 years now (dude, so much already? o.o), it's an internet relationship, we haven't met IRL yet, though we both want it a lot. n.n
We talk pretty much daily on MSN. 
In my experience, once you have a hold on love, don't grip it too tightly, as that'll suffocate it. But don't keep too loose a hold on it, as it could fade away.
I'm a believer in soulmates - people who have enough differences to not be a twin, but people similar enough to make one believe that there really can be two of a kind. For those of you who keep wishing for love and to find that soulmate (if you believe in them), well... don't limit your options. :3 Mine's an entire ocean away. And while it requires more work and caution, the internet is a magical place.
Craig and I have been together for 2 years and almost 2 months and going strong. We've seen each other four times total and though it's been tough, we both feel it's been more than worth the effort.
And it makes me smile to know that there are others out there who feel the same way. 😀 And for those who don't yet, don't give up hope ^^
(yeah sorry for rambling - typing in class with a short attention span FTW)
~Shadowed Spirit Sage
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In my experience, once you have a hold on love, don't grip it too tightly, as that'll suffocate it. But don't keep too loose a hold on it, as it could fade away.
"hold on loosely, but don't let go if you cling to tightly to her, you're gonna lose control"
absolutely couldn't help it.
I didnt always believe in love, I used to think it was a load of bullcrap, becuase everytime I dated somebody I thought would return genuine feelings for anything that could go wrong did go wrong. He was either abusive,too controlling or a cheater. So I just gave up all together, and my self-esteem whent down to zero and with the situation with my grandfather and all I was slowly beginning to believe I wasn't a real person anymore.
But then I met Ricky and he changed my mind completely becuase he didn't see me how everybody else did and how I was use to seeing myself and I love him so much because he wouldnt let me drown in my own insecurity's or my past and he gave me the confidence to actually stand up for myself and be a stronger person and I thank god everyday for him even if I haven't seen him around in a while =D
I am so over the topic of love. I got the worse kind of luck for it. I usually delve into the area of lust nowadays.
But hey, whatever works for you, good on ya.
Don't take love to mean only girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse/fiancee. 😛
All this talk of love makes me feel like stealing Christmas.
Come on, Zex, we're gonna put some effort into it this time.
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"hold on loosely, but don't let go if you cling to tightly to her, you're gonna lose control"
That's how I think of my 360 controller
