Turns out that the baby embedded itself in the fallopian tubes instead of the uterus. She had to undergo surgery to remove the baby before it grew large enough to kill her and itself.
(sighs) She's so sad now...she had no choice, but a life is a life. Pray for her.
Holy crap....
**hugs** I'm so sorry.... Sometimes things have to be done, no matter how difficult. Best wishes to you and your family, Ultra
~Shadowed Spirit Sage
I know.
It was either 'mom and baby die' or 'baby die'. Still...well, you know?
Awwww! That's awful! I send my condolences.
I've never heard of a baby killing its mom, though. In real life, I mean. O_o
Wait, how old are you? You sure you'd want a sibling who's so much younger? My mom had her second kid when I was almost 13. I was so used to being an only child. And what's worse is that people have ALWAYS mistaken the brat to be MY kid. Which is extremely insulting.
But back to the point. Your mom'll be okay. Things like this happen, unfortunately. I'm not very good at offering comfort, but I hope this helped somewhat. *hugs* Besides, it's not like that was her only chance for a baby.
My condolences to your family...
My age is none of your concern.
As for your main point, my mom's getting old. She'll be going through menopause sooner or later, and she wants to have a baby with her new husband (I live with dad, she lives elsewhere). So she doesn't really have a lot of chances left.
And besides, I have THREE siblings. All of them are half a decade younger than me. Sure, they can be annoying...but would I want to live without them? No.
Sorry to hear that, dude. Best wiishes for the future, you seem an alright guy and I hope things go well for you.
Oh my god...that's terrible.... I will pray for the best for your mother as well as your family. There was realy no stopping to what had to be done and...I hope the future brings more rewarding gifts.
~T2K
Gosh, I'm really sorry dude. My stepmom had a miscarriage nearly four years ago so I can sympathesize (sp?) I wish you and the rest of your family all the best for the future.
*pats you on the back* I wish you the best for your family. And I hope your mum can still have the baby she wants.
I'm so sorry this had to happen to your mother. How sad...
~Neo
I know how you feel I to lost a family member not too long ago so I wish you & your mom the best.
That's awful, man. My condolences.
Thanks for the replies everyone. She's going to be resting for the next couple of days to calm down.
*hugs Ultra*
I'm not even going to pretend I know how this feels to go through, and e-support is probably a bit hollow; but it's the best I can do from over here.
It's called an ectopic pregnancy, Shoe. It's not exactly rare, unfortunately. 🙁
I'm sorry for your family's loss and i offer my condolences. I hope all will be well with your mother and she has good luck in the future.
Urgh....I'm very sorry about that, Ultra.
My condolences to your mother. Tell her that it's ok, and that no matter what, you'll be by her side, and hopefully, that counts for a lot. 🙂
*hug*
It's called an ectopic pregnancy, Shoe. It's not exactly rare, unfortunately.
Ah, thank you for enlightening me, Sam.
Again, Ultra, I offer my deepest condolences. Things will be okay. Medical science only gets more awesome, so I bet the next baby will turn out just fine.
Sorry to hear about that, buddy. Hope she gets well after going through such a thought.
sorry, man. did you know what it was going to be?
or was it too underdeveloped?
I think that question falls under "need to know basis", HS77. I feel for ya, Ult. My mom had the exact same thing happen to her a while or so before getting pregnant with me, was told she shouldn't try for another, yet, here I am. If she doesn't give up, she may be able to have another child as well.